Having spent most of last year trying to travel as much as physically possible, this year I've decided to focus more on building my business and just generally becoming a more serious adult. So after the team at Leeds Building Society reached out, I thought it was a perfect time to follow a savings guide like this and make sure I wasn't wasting money. Over the last 6 months (mainly in an effort to make sure I had saved enough for my first ever tax bill), I've completely curbed my spending on clothes and restricted myself to a quarterly budget. So my main expense really is socialising. Usually I'm pretty quick to agree to breakfasts, brunches, lunches and dinner dates. So at first, learning to say no felt a little awkward. But once I'd managed to cut down my spending on food, I noticed a huge difference! Rather than agree to dinner, I tried to find other ways of catching up with friends - ones that didn't involve spending much money. From beach trips to walks along Hadrian's Wall, it's not that hard to find great ways to spend an afternoon that are a lot healthier for me and my bank balance! Likewise, it encouraged me to think more about the amount that I was spending on food shopping general. Rather than go in with no idea of what I was planning to make (like usual) or going to the other extreme and planning out each individual meal (because that kind of set routine drives me nuts), I came up with a list of stuff that worked for a few recipes and planned a shopping list based on that. It meant I didn't feel restricted and gave me the chance to get creative with recipe ideas or try something new.
Having come to the end of the challenge, I was expecting my overwhelming emotion to be relief. But actually, making the adjustment felt easier than I expected - it was more about being clever when I felt in the mood for a treat! Like cashing in on spa reviews or restaurant reviews rather than splash out on eating out... or making a takeaway substitute if I was in the mood for something naughty. It's definitely something I still need to work on, because I still feel like a spender at heart, but following Frank's advice has helped me to become more aware of what I'm spending. And week by week, following the guidelines, I definitely spent more time considering the repercussions of a purchase and how that would mean my behaviour adjusted to ensure I still met my savings goal for the month! The advice I'll definitely continue to follow is on managing my own willpower... I mean, it's way more realistic to consider each purchase before committing and it forces me to question my decision making rather than just jumping to the conclusion that yes, I need that bunch of peonies or to treat myself to Dominos after a long day's work!
* This post has been written in collaboration with Leeds Building Society. Find out more about the psychology behind your financial personality or view the guide I followed in the link here.
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